when I get involved in a relationship I think of the woman all the time. This happened this morning, after i spoke with Mirjam on the phone yesterday evening. I was working at my sisters farm and thinking what is she doing talking to people at work etc. I said to myself, how strange that I think only of her, I know other people aswell. Later on the horses gathered to stand still and be in oneness. I joined and all of the thinking was gone. I realized it had been an attempt by the mind to create oneness.